unschooling in a highly regulated state

by christina on December 29, 2012

Unschooling or life learning can be challenging in a state with very strict laws regarding home education, but it certainly isn’t impossible.  In life learning we have no curriculum; no one sits down to the kitchen table to “do school” each day; there are no tests and no grades.  Learning works itself seamlessly and enthusiastically into the fabric of our everyday.  We read, research, explore, and live with a sense of curiosity about the world around us.  It’s truly a wonderful way to live, but it is certainly well outside the understanding of many school officials who see learning in a very different way.

Each state has varying degrees of regulation over homeschooling families, ranging from none whatsoever (for example, you don’t even have to let the district know you’re homeschooling in NJ) to portfolio/evaluation/testing requirements .  We live in a state with the latter.  I’m going to take what I’ve learned living in one of the most strictly regulated states in the country, and share a few tips with you all.  Some of it will be specific to Pennsylvania, but I think a lot of it is relevant really to any state with strict home ed laws.  Feel free to add your experiences or suggestions related to your states in the comments- I’d love to hear about it.

1.  First and probably most importantly is to know the law.  I know it is at best an incredibly dry read and at worst highly confusing, but it is absolutely essential that you read through the specifics of the homeschooling law in your state.  There are often websites that help break down the major points of the law (Ask Pauline is an excellent resource for Pennsylvania unschoolers).  They are helpful, but not a replacement for reading the law in its entirety.  You cannot assume that your school district officials know or have even read the homeschooling law.  Often they have not, and think you are subject to the same requirements as the children in school.  Read the law and print a copy to keep on hand to find answers to specific questions.  In Pennsylvania you are required to submit a portfolio, and I like to take that opportunity to put in some important quotes from PA Act 169.  It ensures that we are all on the same page as they review our portfolio.  I think it’s important to be friendly, but assertive when dealing with your district.  There is no reason to have an adversarial relationship, but it is important to stand up for your rights as a home/unschooling family.

2.  My second piece of friendly advice is to resist the urge to over-comply.  You may think this would be beneficial, but the practice is harmful to the other home educating families in your district, as well as potentially your own.  As I mentioned above, sometimes school districts are not familiar with the law, and if a group of families in the district are going above and beyond what is required by law, it may become the expectation.  Be sure that all you submit is done well and in compliance with the law, and leave it at that.  Sure, it can be tempting to want to showcase your child’s genius in his/her passionate interest, but doing this for the school district will help no one.  Grandparents, on the other hand, will likely love to hear all about their pursuits. :)

3.  Next, keep excellent records throughout the year of your child’s work and interests (while remembering that you don’t have to submit it all).  I like to keep a running list of books read, websites used, documentaries watched, and experiments done.  I print copies of instruction manuals for things like snap circuits and solar power building kits.  I keep brochures from places we’ve visited, and take a lot of photos.  Evernote can be helpful if you prefer online record keeping, but may not be submissible to your school district.  In the end of the “school year” I take all of our rich life experiences and translate them into the language of education in our country, complete with objectives met, grade level appropriateness, etc.  This is by far my least favorite thing to do, albeit a necessary one.  As a side note, if your child does not produce a lot of paperwork and a portfolio is required, it is important to be creative as I mentioned above by including photos etc.  In our family, we do fill in perceived “gaps” with worksheets.  I discuss with Josh the challenges of unschooling in our state, and explain the use of worksheets.  He’s always been more than happy to satisfy the state’s requirements in order to continue living and learning the way we do.  We go through the worksheets at his pace, and when he wants to do them.  In PA, it is important to be aware that there must be documented teaching on fire safety-this is one area where completing a couple worksheets together is very helpful.

4.  Standardized testing is required in many states, including Pennsylvania.  At this point, go back and refer to my first point.  Know the law of your state- inside and out.  I’ll use PA as an example here.  Many people think their home educated child will have to go to the school and take the PSSA’s.  This is seriously panic inducing for many families.  No.  Only children in school are required to take that test.  Homeschooled children are required to complete standardized testing in grades 3, 5, and 8.  You can also choose the test used (I highly recommend Seton CAT).  They can complete the test at home, and it can be administered by anyone who is not the home ed supervisor (you can trade with another family, have a friend or family member administer the test).  I’ve written more about my feelings on the standardized testing requirement here.

5.  Build community.  This really cannot be underestimated.  As unschoolers, we’re sort of a minority within a minority.  Join local co-ops or online groups specific to unschooling in your state.  Plan park days or playdates with other families.  Support each other.  Go to conferences, and meet other people living and learning together.  Have fun, and remember that while meeting the requirements of a highly regulated state can be tedious as an unschooler, this life is so so worth it.

 

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what i hope they remember

by christina on December 28, 2012

I often think about what I hope my children will remember about these days when they are grown.  Sometimes it’s a fun thought about their unconventional childhood, and other times it’s a deeper wondering that helps me to reset when I feel like I am not being the parent I want to be or one that they deserve.

Here are five of my favorite things I want my children to remember when they are grown or when I am long gone.

5.  Connection.  I want my children to remember how much we value connecting to each of them.  I want them to know how valued they have always been and will always be as individuals.  We don’t desire for them to be anyone but who they are in their heart… no requirements or expectations to weigh down their beautiful spirits.

 

4.  Support.  I hope they remember that we support them in all they do.  Failures happen, and can bring about so much growth.  We’ll forever be there with a shoulder to lean on.  I also hope they will always remember that we encouraged them to let their freak flags fly with pride, and never expected them to be like everyone else… life would be so very boring that way.

 

3.  Play and exploration.  I want them to remember the trips we took, whether it was to the local park or the other side of the country.  I want them to remember that sense of adventure… and ice cream for dinner.

 

2. Laughter.  I hope they always remember the laughter in our house, and take it with them wherever they may go.  Oh how I hope they remember the wild dance party we had in the living room tonight, that ended with two boys rolling on the floor in peals of laughter.  I hope they know that they have always made me laugh and smile like no others.

 

1.  Love.  Pure.  Unconditional.  There is simply nothing more important.

 

 

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slow and easy

by christina on December 20, 2012

I’ve always made a conscious effort to make the holidays a simple time.  Still, there’s usually a lot of cooking, baking, sewing, knitting… and a bit of shopping and list making.

Ah but this year there has been sort of a forced slowness.  This week leading up to solstice is typically the busiest of all, and it is precisely this week that the three wee ones in our family have one by one come down with this rather nasty stomach virus. So, instead of sewing, I’m making tea… in place of large baking projects are lots of stories read and movies watched.  I’m letting go of my expectations about what the holidays need to be, and what I should be getting done.

Tomorrow for solstice, there are no big plans this year… maybe a walk in the woods if everyone is feeling well, and a day spent quietly together.  Sound like just what we need.  :)

Wishing you all a wonderful, happy, and peaceful holiday season!

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helping out

by christina on December 11, 2012

In our small town, I have been lucky to meet an awesome fellow blogger with an amazing family.  They moved up here to farm and do great things, and have hit some struggles along the way.  Lisa has written about it recently, and reached out for some help.  Please go and read her story, and give what you can… every little bit does help.

I was just reading Lisa’s blog this morning, and noticed this amazing giveaway to benefit her family during this time of transition.  So, check it out and help out where you can!

Thanks! :)

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strewing math

December 11, 2012

Before we dive into this, let me take a moment to explain what exactly “strewing” is to any readers who may not be familiar with the idea. It’s a term originally used by Sandra Dodd, and you can find some fantastic ideas on her website.  I highly recommend checking it out if you find this [...]

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love.

December 10, 2012

You’ll have to forgive the mush today… I had a post all ready to go about unschooling and math, and if you’d rather read that be sure to check back tomorrow.  For today, I’m going to tell a story. Eighteen years ago, a 15 year old girl met a boy.  He asked her to a [...]

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local food love

December 8, 2012

Someday, I hope to be almost completely self-sufficient on our little homestead, but being still in our first year here we are not even close.  Throughout the summer, a large amount of our food came directly from the garden, but now as winter rolls in all that remains is a bit of frozen kale, zucchini, [...]

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dusting off

December 6, 2012

Hello there.  It’s been a long time since I’ve shared anything here.  It wasn’t necessarily my intention, but the pace of the summer really kept me quite busy outside. Being the first summer in our new home, it was all about getting our garden spaces established.  I’ll give you a little glimpse at what you [...]

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unplugged

May 23, 2012

We’re not typically a media-heavy family.  Sure, the boys love watching Wild Kratts on PBS, but otherwise the tv is only on when I am compulsively checking the weather for frost.    We do enjoy movies on the computer, and Jason and I indulge many nights in old episodes of Arrested Development or The Daily [...]

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diy citronella candle

May 18, 2012

We’re getting ready for our first camping trip of the summer, and one of my biggest jobs is keeping the bugs (mosquitos and ticks especially!) at bay.  I mixed up a batch of deet free bug spray earlier in the spring, and today my focus was making up some citronella candles to burn while we’re [...]

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